This memorial
didn't start by any goal or mission that some group or individual desired or
set out to accomplish initially, but as a favor that grew out of control and
took root, one that the community fell in love with and took over the painters
heart. As I walked along looking at the black partition, I see a little old man
poke his head out from around the back of it. The man looked old
with his wrinkly, sun spotted skin, his long white goatee, slightly hunched
posture, wearing all denim covered in veteran’s patches, an American flag bandanna around his neck, and a veteran’s hat. As I walked back towards him he
asked me if I served in the military and of course I said no. This man was an Air-force veteran by the
name of Ken Pridgeon (78). Mr. Pridgeon isn't even a native Baytonian, but a
transplant from Florida, and is
the artist and owner of “Portrait of a Warrior.” I went to the Memorial
Art Gallery to spend some time with Mr. Pridgeon and gain some insight on this memorial. “Wesley
Riggs started all of this” said Mr. Pridgeon, “Wesley died in Iraq
in 2005. A woman asked me to paint a portrait of him for an event for the
Wounded Warriors Project.” He told me that it would've been the last one he did
but Jessie Ainsworth was being buried in Dayton that
day and someone approached him saying “Ken, you’re gonna have to
paint a portrait of Jessie.” Mr. Pridgeon said “I argued with them a bit, but
at that time I didn't realize I was going to be on some kind of mission.” He
started to paint this portrait and it was like a domino effect. Word started to
spread of his paintings of fallen heroes and very soon family after family from
all over started asking him to paint their sons and daughters who had fallen in
war. There were parents from as far as London
that came to him and even local parents who had no idea that he had
already heard of their child’s death and started on portraits of them. He even
painted a portrait of Nick Marshall, son of local blogger Baytown Bert.
Families send pictures of the fallen soldier in uniform and pictures of the
solider doing what they love and of them with the people they love for a
reference to paint from. I asked him if he charged for the paintings to
which he answered with a resounding “NO.” He then told me about the mother of Army
Sgt. Shaun Tousha who had heard about the portraits. She called and said “I
understand you paint pictures of soldiers and their stories.” Mr. Pridgeon said
“yes ma’am” and when she asked how much it cost to have a portrait done, he
told her “you already paid the price, he already paid the price, they’re all
free, thank ya ma’am.” Mr. Pridgeon pays for everything himself and through
donations, and each family gets a print of the portrait. Along with the community, he has been
recognized by the Texas House of Representatives commending him for his
efforts. When I asked him why he continues to get up every morning and
paint these portraits when it was just supposed to be a one time favor Mr. Pridgeon stated “I love what I do, I couldn't quit if I wanted, they all deserve
this, and it’s hard to believe sometimes that this is what I get to do all day."
Generally I don’t
have a very emotional reaction to things like this. I've always agreed that the
fallen should be respected and honored for their service, but with my
observation of the direction America is going, I've had a hard time believing
in the military, particularly with what they are asked to do and who asked them
to do it. I've also been a very disturbed for a long time by the way we
“remember” people in America .
Whether or not you are a soldier, it seems that all deaths are treated the same
way, with the same honor and what seems like the same, insincere, over the top
idolization and worship that continues for years upon years out of some sort of
social or behavior obligation. I've always been able to understand the family
of a fallen warrior honoring them year after year and people showing respect,
but what has bothered me is complete strangers showing up and “worshiping” for
lack of a better word, paying an inordinate amount of attention. My reaction when I walked into the Portrait of a Warrior
Memorial Art Gallery
wasn't any different that it would be for other memorials. It was an
unemotional reaction but respectful. I didn't feel uncomfortable with what was going on
there though. I was simply expecting to walk in, see portraits and talk to the owner
then leave, but when I spoke with Mr. Pridgeon and heard the individual stories
and even more so the reactions of parents, my heart broke and I couldn't hold
back tears. The paintings of the soldiers are uncanny. As I walked through, I
came across people I had seen before, Shaun Tousha, Jessie Ainsworth and Pat
Tillman, but one of them in particular that I knew a little better was a young
man by the name of Jeremy Burris. I know his siblings and have worked with some
of his family before in music. His face was unmistakable and i can remember the day the his funeral procession came through town, right past the school I was working for. After getting the
tour, Mr. Pridgeon thanked me for coming by and invited me to come back anytime.
He firmly shook my hand, walked off, and I slipped back out the front door,
stopping to take another long look at the portraits and the gallery before taking my forty minute long drive back to Liberty.
I feel that Mr. Pridgeons approach is
perfectly tasteful and exactly what it should be when it comes to honoring our
fallen warriors. It’s a memorial that everyone can see and one that captures
each individual and personality, but it’s done between him, the soldier, and the family, which
I think is the most beautiful thing. His dedication to memorializing and
honoring not only the local heroes but also those from all over America that
have fallen for us in our most recent wars is a vein that runs deep, not only in
Ken Pridgeon, but through all Baytonians. I believe it is a true testament and
image of the community of Baytown , Texas .
Ken Pridgeon (DePrang) |
Works
Cited
DePrang, Emily. Ken Pridgeon. Digital image. Texasobserver.org. Texasobserver.org, 11 Feb. 2013 . Web. 12 Nov. 2013
Pridgeon, Ken. Personal Interview. 24 Oct. 2013
Portrait of a Warrior Storefront, Baytown, TX. Personal photograph by author. 2013.
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